Saturday, July 15, 2017
As I was starting to write this next blog post, I realized how its gonna be the complete exact opposite of my recent post. But anyway, I am back with a next blogpot, an anecdote that I'm about to share with you,- whoever is reading this right now, I hope you already that in this reality we lived in... shits do really happen once in awhile. It sucks but that's life!

On third day of July, we decided to drive down to Port Aransas/ Aransas Pass to spend the rest of the night watching fireworks and maybe do a midnight swim- you know, all those fun stuffs. So, as we were driving... we got there at sunset. It was already okay but then we couldn't find an RV Park with a full hook ups which means, RV park that provides you with electricity, water, and waste/dump. We were driving around the coast that dark night trying to find a place to stay for the night with two cars and a 43 foot-long RV tag along. It was insane! It was windy and hot and the place was crowded with people. We hadn't eaten yet plus the fact that we were all dead tired and couldn't just function well. I was running around... trying my hardest to find us a place to stay- searching, googling, etc. Tip: Make sure to make a reservation first before you go elsewhere. Then at 11 something pm... we found an RV park.. but it wasn't a full hook up  and we couldn't level the RV so it wasn't very useful at all... and the worse thing is that we've already paid for a one night stay. So we ended up just driving back to the Port and rode the Ferry going back to Aransas Pass. By that time, fireworks were everywhere. We realized, it was the Fourth of July. I had to smile a lil bit... a bittersweet one.

Thankfully, we found a place to park... used the generator, ate our leftovers and then we went to bed at around 3AM. I had a good night sleep, tbh. It wasn't until we woke up the next day... the day was soooo young and hot and wild lol it was sooo sunny and crazy hot! I cannot even describe everything but just think about the Texas heat then you'll know what I am talking about. Anyways, to make the long story short... we had a flat tire! So, we (me and my sister, Trixie) were practically changing the tire in the middle of this dessert-like-park-place... and we didn't have any choice but to change it quickly and properly. We got lucky because Walmart was only five miles away from our destination so me and my mom decided to drive the two cars... me following her. On the way, I was legitly crossing my fingers and praying to God that the car wouldn't stop in the middle of the highway. I kept cursing and praying at the same time. Thankfully, we got to Walmart just in time for the tire to be totally inflated. But then again... we waited for FOUR FREAKING HOURS to get that tire done. We actually have two flat tires and the air pressure system for one of the tires is broken. What a day!!!
So now, ten days after that "lucky day", another lucky day happened to me... I mean, I am being sarcastic here just so you know. To make the long story short, I was driving and I was backing up and then I freaking backed up and hit this woman's mailbox... that wa unfortunately "broken" when in fact it was just the handle that I hit. So my stepdad fixed it... I helped him of course. I'll have to patch the concrete wall of that mailbox cause she didn't want it to fall or whatsoever. By the way, she actually called the sherriff and reported this simple matter instead oft talking to us "nicely"... what a kind and nice woman she is.

Then later that afternoon, the sherriff arrived and she asked for my I.D and I was looking and searching for my provisional driver's license that's unfortunately not in my purse... so yeah, on this fourteenth of July, I lost my driver's license. What a day!!!

The point of this blog post is to make me go through the bad events that happened the past few days or even today. I wanted to rewind them and analyze how stupid I am... but at the same time, I wanted to officially announced myself as a young-adult. Some people thinks I am a goodie-good-shoes and I am... depends on the occassion. lol But seriously, July is really not my month. A lot of shits happens in the first two weeks and I know I'll be able to get through this. Honestly, I have to pat myself on the back because I realized how calm and cool I am while dealing with these things. I didn't had a breakdown (lol) and I was legitly accepting all my faults, mistakes, and stupidness. I didn't complain nor blame it to others. I maturely accpeted that I was wrong and I made mistakes... and that's okay!!!
I am just glad that my parents didn't yell nor nagg me about what happened. My stepdad even told me that "don't fell bad about it, shits do happens sometimes" and that makes me feel so much better. My mom even helped me finding my lost license... but we failed to find it. lol

In conclusion, shits do really happens guys! I mean, they legit do happen... sometimes or worse, all the time! But that's okay because that's how life works and that's not something to worry about too much. Life doesn't stop just because you made a mistake... instead, life goes on and on and on... then you'll realized how much you've learnt from those mistakes you made. Shits happens because its challenging our inner and emotional capacity. Its testing our calmness in times of darkness. So if shit happens, just take a deep breathe, deal with it like a mature and responsible human being, then smile because that's okay! Just know that no matter what happens in your life, there will be people like your family that supports you and will always be there for you... believe me, they will be there. Always.

charish xx

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